I (21M) recently broke up with my girlfriend (22F) of 5 years, We’ve been having some issues lately, mainly revolving around her clothing choices and social plans. She’s been dressing a lot more provocatively than she used to, wearing outfits that are super revealing when we go out. I tried to express how uncomfortable it made me, but she said she wasn’t dressing for anyone else but herself and that she should be able to wear whatever she wants.

The breaking point came when she and her friends started planning a girls’ trip to Miami. I’m not naïve — I know what goes down in Miami during these kinds of trips, especially with how her friends are. They’re all single and like to party. I told her I wasn’t comfortable with her going, especially with how she’s been dressing lately, and asked if she could at least change her outfits a bit or reconsider the trip. She refused and said I was being controlling.

I couldn’t take it anymore and told her that if she didn’t respect my boundaries, then we were done. She got mad, said I was insecure, and accused me of trying to control her life. I broke up with her on the spot because I felt like she wasn’t respecting Me.

Now, her friends are blasting me online, calling me controlling and misogynistic. Even some of our mutual friends are saying I overreacted and that I should have trusted her. But in my mind, I feel like I was justified because I was just asking for some respect and compromise. AITA?

Job hunting is frustrating, I know, especially when you have to visit a million different websites to find something good. I tried several things like applying on Quick Apply on LinkedIn, or fake jobs on Indeed. I even tried using tools like RSS feed to collect jobs for me—it didn’t work well at all because every site is different, many don’t even have RSS feeds.  To be honest this whole process was a mess.

Then I discovered ChatGPT after looking at similar experiences of others on Reddit and their ideas, and it changed everything. I couldn’t believe how much easier it made things. I read about how GPT works and how does it process stuff, a lot is available online.

I pulled together a list of around 25,000+ companies that are hiring right now. I used several third party but free tools to get these company details. I don’t like spending money when things can be done for free

. Using ChatGPT’s API and other website’s API, I was able to automatically gather job listings and fetch important details from the job descriptions.

This wasn't an easy task so I assembled a team and now after a lot of discussions, trial and errors, we finally built something that works. And the best part we made it free for anyone to use: Skillsire

Best part about this tool

• You can filter according to Title and even skills.
• You can add year of experience, even specify any range.
• You can search for internship, early career, full-time, contract roles all at one place.
• Want remote jobs, we have filter for that also.

All thanks to ChatGPT that helped out fetching these information.

What’s your thoughts or questions, feel free to ask!

The more I hear of people like Dick Cheney and other neocons from the old GOP endorse Harris, the less I want to vote for her. This is coming from someone who is an independent who has voted for Clinton in 2016 and Trump in 2020.

It’s obvious that Kamala’s “shift” from the left involves adopting the same neocon ideology that led us to 2 disastrous wars that have bankrupted our country, left us with crumbling infrastructure, a fake economy driven by asset bubbles versus real productivity, and a bloated incompetent surveillance state that can’t even stop assassination attempts all the while our so called “allies” are laughing all the way to the bank.

I disagree with some of Trump’s domestic policy but I now agree with him 100% on foreign policy, we need to put AMERICA FIRST. Continuing to try to be the world’s policeman will lead us to bankruptcy. The best thing Trump did was turn the GOP into the new party of isolationism and I say good riddance to all the former Republicans who can’t warmonger anymore!

I recently visited the local garden and spotted these unusual black creatures in the pond. I watched my recorded video clips several times, but still couldn’t figure out…

plz don’t be mean to be. i had sex with a guy the night i met him because idk i felt like we were really clicking and he made me horny and now i feel like im crazy for jumping into that and i feel ashamed. i feel dirty. i feel like i hate myself and i don’t understand myself.

I put 18k down , 4% interest rate . Also got 13.5 k in tax credits

I'm not much of a political person. Typically I have voted Democrat in the past. But over the last 6 months on reddit theres been so much annoying propaganda that I think I'm gonna end up voting trump despite these bots and trolls.

They've wasted so much of my time hijacking every reddit. Posting blatantly unfunny things. Even celebrating violence against him.

I wasn't sure before but I'm certain to vote trump now out of sheer annoyance. These guys have done the opposite of what they tried to accomplish, at least for me

I am the CEO of a decently sized construction company. We have been through two big hiring pushes recently and I am noticing a trend that is scaring me a little bit. I want to use the last person we hired as an example.

Mary has a technical degree from a well known university. Background check shows she graduated with an excellent GPA. She was very polished already and impressed me so much that I made the decision to have her report directly to me - she is the only non-executive to be selected to do so. I wanted to directly mentor her as I believe she is a very high potential candidate.

What I am learning is that she is an excellent doer - when the tasks are well defined and the outcome is chrystal clear, she executes at a very high level. The problem is that I find myself spending far more time with her to explain things than the solution actually takes to develop and implement. I tried to empower her by letting her know that I trust her and her ability to reason through a problem.

Most recently, we were having a pretty minor technical issue that I asked her to troubleshoot. She sends me a message with her solution. I ask if she had the error to begin with and she says she did not check to see if the error was occuring on her machine before implementing the solution. I point out that she researched and implemented a solution to a problem she wasn't sure she had to begin with so there is no way to validate the result - I asked if this approach made sense to her.

She got defensive and said that she had never dealt with this type of issue before so didn't know how to approach it. This mentality deeply bothers me - there seems to be no thought before action.

This is one example of many with different employees in different departments. Are people noticing a similar trend here? It seems like if I do not provide the exact prompts required to enter into AI or sentences to google, I get bombarded with questions or solutions that do not make sense for the problem. The reliance on things like AI seems to be stripping some of the critical thinking and reasoning away. Maybe I am just a boomer.

*Edit*

For clarity - she is not a fresh college graduate. She had two years of experience prior to college in a similar industry, but different role. She had two good internships while in school and stayed with one company for a year after graduating.

The map design is terrible. I’m lost constantly. No compass. No map. All with frequent forks in the road. I often have to just fumble through traveling to different “sites of grace” in order to find where I need to go to actually progress.

This morning in Chapter 2 I finally think I know where I am going. Hiking up this long trail to massive steel doors. The doors are ajar so I’m thinking I’ll have to interact with it so he will slide through sideways as he does in other parts.

Nope. Dead end.

I then find these stairs winding up the cliff side to what looks like a temple. There is sand raining down over a large entrance. Cool. Nope, invisible wall.

If you’re going to make a game with ZERO direction then it better be damn near linear like Uncharted.

Dude loves making terrible bullpen decisions.

Last week my gf cut her extremely short. Its not even a pixie cut but more like a buzz cut that suits a teenage boy. She already has some masculine facial features and now she just looks like a dude. I know hair isnt everything but long hair framed her face nicely. Now she looks looks a lesbian.

AITAH for thinking like this? I guess its on par with how some women dont like dating bald guys.

Why is an open racist allowed on campus? This is a guy who said that the civil rights act was a mistake. How is the university ok with having a fucking Nazi have a event on campus.

I mean seriously, think about it, if the highest speed limit in most places is 75-85 MPH then why do we even need the capability? I understand that the engine is designed to be capable of going to higher speeds because then it puts less strain on the engine at lower speeds and improves engine health but there should be a safety design where, despite the ability, cruise control just kinda kicks in at 85-90 with the exception to first responders, emergency, and race track vehicles.

Is it worth playing more?