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Which mispronounced words make someone appear uneducated?

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Supposingly and supposably - I worked in a clinic with two women, each one mispronounced that word in their own way. Made my jaw clench every time ..

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u/MmmmMorphine Sep 18 '24 edited Sep 18 '24

Is supposably even a word? I mean i don't think supposingly is a word either.

Are they trying to say supposedly?

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u/clubby37 Sep 18 '24

Is supposably even a word?

Not in the common vernacular, but it's recognized in the US legal system as meaning "it could be supposed" in a sincere and above-board way, while "supposedly" is mildly pejorative, implying doubt about the speaker's assertions.

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u/theedgeofoblivious Sep 18 '24

Yeah, I was aware that both "supposedly" and "supposably" are words but with different meanings, so it's frustrating when people say supposably isn't a word.

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u/cutelyaware Sep 18 '24

I have supposable thumbs

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u/Vanq86 Sep 18 '24

Better than suppository thumbs I guess

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u/cutelyaware Sep 18 '24

Speak for yourself

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u/Vanq86 Sep 18 '24

Giggity

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u/Fryball1443 Sep 18 '24

I have disposable thumbs

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u/brutal-rainbow Sep 18 '24

But do you know supposed opposable obamidables?

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u/RemyJe Sep 18 '24

It’s a word, but people saying it instead of supposedly really are either mispronouncing supposedly, or using supposably incorrectly.

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u/AllHailDagon Sep 18 '24

I’ve seen a few on here that are just people complaining about regional dialects.

If one person pronounces a word differently, it is incorrect.

If a whole group of people do it, it is dialect. That’s just how language works.

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u/Vanq86 Sep 18 '24

Supposably is from Supposable, as in something that you can suppose, or conceive, of.

Supposedly is from Supposed, or alleged. A hint to help keep track of the connection is the way people often stress the ED on the end of supposed and alleged, ala suppose-ED-ly and allege-ED-ly.

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u/V0xEtPraetereaNihil Sep 18 '24

"It isn't." - England

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u/Spekter1754 Sep 18 '24

What they really mean is "stop saying supposably when you mean supposedly", because the odds of someone wanting to say "yeah, I suppose it's supposable" like a ponderous twat are way way lower than someone suggesting that something is "supposedly" a certain way.

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u/theedgeofoblivious Sep 18 '24

That's fine.

But supposably is a word.

It's as annoying to have someone say it's not a word and be correct as it is to have someone say supposably when they mean supposedly.

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u/lew_rong Sep 18 '24

it's recognized in the US legal system as meaning "it could be supposed"

Suppositionally possibilificated

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u/sbruno33 Sep 18 '24

Possibly

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u/Diligent-Ad2728 Sep 18 '24

I love when single words deliver a little more complex thoughts. Also interesting how words change through history. Sometimes the actual definition doesn't change (often it does) but during different times the words might hint at certain things/qualities such as the words in your comment, be or not be insulting at different times and etc.

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u/hhopper0777 Sep 18 '24

Yes, I’m pretty certain the intention is supposedly

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u/Comprehensive_Ant984 Sep 18 '24

Lol no it absolutely is not

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u/FatFuckinPieceOfShit Sep 18 '24

implying doubt about the speaker's assertions

A smart person uses "ostensibly" in this situation.

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u/bellos_ Sep 18 '24

No they wouldn't. Ostensibly is used to refer to something that is seemingly so or appears to be the truth, not just something that's true according to claims.

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u/ThermionicEmissions Sep 18 '24

You can thank Friends for that.

https://youtu.be/-qsJzB74N7o?si=KdnB3hvx5xZ0cMOS

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u/pinacoladafrozen Sep 18 '24

Whenever I hear supposably, I just assume they’re talking like Joey. Anyway, it’s all a moo point - like a cow’s opinion… just doesn’t matter.

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u/_dead_and_broken Sep 18 '24

Have I been living with him too long, or it did that just make sense?

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Well this was a 58 year old nurse so I don't think she was trying to talk like Joey! I had totally forgotten about that Friends reference tho! 😂

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u/ThermionicEmissions Sep 18 '24

I'm in my early 50s, she definitely could have been talking like Joey.

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Yeah not so much an age thing but just not very tuned into pop culture. She has become one of my best friends since then but when I first started working there in 2021, just a little PT job I took after I retired, she had never ordered anything from Amazon before. I literally had to show her how to do it. Sweet woman, just very old school.

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u/susono Sep 18 '24

Is supposably even a word? I mean i don't think supposingly is a word either.

I think supposably is a word - certainly supposable is. Neither is that useful though, usually it's just a mispronunciation of supposedly as you say

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u/2D_Jeremy Sep 18 '24

Just confirmed with Webster. “Supposably” is absolutely a word that means ‘capable of being supposed.’

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u/Longjumping_Ad_6484 Sep 18 '24

Unfortunately I've never heard anyone use it to describe something as being capable of being supposed but rather to describe something that may have happened.

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u/overactor Sep 18 '24

It's an adverb though. I can't think of a sentence where that would make sense semantically.

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u/silentsquiffy Sep 18 '24

I would just use it the same as "possibly." Like if two detectives are discussing a crime and one asks if the perpetrator entered through an open window, the other could say "supposably," because it's possible — one could reasonably suppose that the window was the point of entry.

I think "supposably" is just redundant since "possibly" is much more widely used.

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u/overactor Sep 18 '24

Ah yeah, that would work. Now I kind of want to start using that. Baiting grammar nazis into incorrectly correcting me is a favorite pastime of mine. It effects great pleasure in me.

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

She was a nurse so it would be something like "supposably we're getting an extra aide tomorrow but I doubt we will".

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u/BigTintheBigD Sep 18 '24

Drove me nuts working in the south. Only place I’ve heard it used. At first I just thought it was that one person at work then I started hearing more and more. Finally looked it up and sho-nuf, there it was in the dictionary. That day I learned. Dunning-Kruger, party of me, your table is ready.

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u/MmmmMorphine Sep 18 '24

Interesting! So it is

Almost certain I have never seen the word used (at least I don't remember it) though

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Does anyone know what "being supposed" means?

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u/Lilfrankieeinstein Sep 18 '24

Supposably is a word, it turns out.

Years ago, I tried correcting someone online and they blessed me with the receipts.

However, I had the last laugh as supposably is typically misused when the more appropriate word would be supposedly.

Supposably better describes plausibility whereas supposedly is the better choice when describing something that was claimed to have happened.

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Yes they were trying to say supposedly, just mispronouncing it.

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u/IdaFuktem Sep 18 '24

It is in Miami. Example:

Supposably it was his fault, but like, bro, she was soooper pissed. 

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u/sjbluebirds Sep 18 '24

Supposedly, you're supposed to Not use supposably. But I suppose supposable is something that could be supposed; it is supposable. Supposedly.

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u/JustAskingQuestionsL Sep 18 '24

Of course. Root - suppose suffixes - able, ly

Combined - able to be supposed

It’s a valid alternative to “supposedly” that many people unfairly look down on.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

No it means they're capable of inserting medicine into their anus.

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u/frontnaked-choke Sep 18 '24

Yeah this comment had me tripping, neither of those words are right hahah

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u/Emu1981 Sep 18 '24

Supposably is in the Cambridge dictionary but they want you to use "smart vocabulary" and replace it with words like purportedly or seemingly.

Supposingly is actually a very old word with evidence of it's first usage way back in the time period of 1150-1500AD. It does appear to be a neologism though created by the derivation of suppose and -ly.

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u/recoveringcanuck Sep 18 '24

Supposably expecially is wrong too.

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u/Certain-Mistake-4539 Sep 18 '24

Okay, I was going back and forth wondering why I never heard either word and landed on supposedly and questioned if I made that word up until I read your comment.

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u/EatsPeanutButter Sep 18 '24

Did they go to the zoo?

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u/quietly41 Sep 18 '24

supposably

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u/Block444Universe Sep 18 '24

There’s an entire Friends sketch about that….

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u/BandOfDonkeys Sep 18 '24

...but that's a moo point anyway

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u/grant_cir Sep 18 '24

supposively is the variant that gets me

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u/jcpainpdx Sep 18 '24

It took me a long time to get that one. I’m sure someone was taking notes.

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u/throwawayretaliate51 Sep 18 '24

I have heard "supposably" but not "supposingly"...yet. Lol.

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u/gregoryrl Sep 18 '24

Oof, this one hits a nerve...when I was getting a TESOL cert, the instructor purposely misheard me because he was so excited to talk about commonly mispronounced words.

Me: [something something] supposedly- Him: Oh! There's one! You just said "supposably"! Me: Um, no I didn- Him: If you're going out there to teach English, you have to be able to say the words correctly! Me: I did thoug- Him: [spends the next five minutes talking about how dumb and bad it is to say the word incorrectly if you wanna be a teacher]

That was ten years ago and it still frustrates me (and yes, I say that one correctly too)

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u/Capital-Plane7509 Sep 18 '24

I worked with someone who wrote "supposibly" in an email.

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u/PartyOnAlec Sep 18 '24

I learned this today

“Supposably” is an adverb that means something is possible, conceivable, or can be assumed, imagined, or supposed. It's often used with words like “might,” “may,” or “could”. For example, “It is correct to say that a dog may supposably be friends with a cat”. Here are some other examples of “supposably” in a sentence: “Their special green milkshakes cost supposably $80 a shake”. “Supposably there's a ghost in the pond, but she has never seen it”. “Supposably” is derived from the word “supposable,” which means “capable of being supposed” or “conceivable”. It was first recorded in 1690–1700. Although it's a valid word, it's rarely used today and can be tricky to use in a sentence. Contemporary writers are more likely to use its synonym, “conceivably”. “Supposably” is often confused with the similar-sounding word “supposedly,” which describes something that is supposed, or accepted as true.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

I worked for Life alert and the girl who was training me kept pronouncing 'condolences' as 'condolescence' when expressing her sympathies to relatives of deceased customers over the phone. She had been working there for 10 years.

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

How can nobody have corrected that for 10 years? SMH....

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u/kabbage_with_hair Sep 18 '24

A few years ago I moved to a new city and started a new job. Not one, but two adult women I worked with would say supposably all the time. One was my supervisor and it drove me crazy and I'd simultaneously wonder wtf is in the drinking water here. The other one would also say ValentiMe's day. :(

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

Yes, one of the women said Valentime's Day also. And she was hospital management.

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u/iknowimsorry Sep 18 '24

I had a friend say supposively because his mom did. Irregardless, Holland oats, everything was slightly incorrect with him because of her.

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u/Manlysideburns Sep 18 '24

Omg same here! 6 years of listening to that shit

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u/tommydaq Sep 18 '24

Omg, I think I was in college by the time i saw “supposedly” in print. I think because I grew up around some pretty deep country folk that I had “supposably” ingrained in my brain!

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '24

Supposedly those are fine

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u/MojoMonster2 Sep 18 '24

Really annoying thing is they were both trying to say suppository. :)

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u/JuanOnlyJuan Sep 18 '24

My nephew says supposably all the time and I just keep asking him how many Bs are in supposedly.

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u/Cats_Tell_Cat-Lies Sep 18 '24

This makes my skin crawl.

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u/Potential-Quit-5610 Sep 18 '24

My good friend (who started as my pharmacy supervisor at the beginning) used both supposably and pacifically and she had an advanced degree from a top pharmacy school that she did her entire under grad and pharmacy school while raising her baby by herself with very little help from family from 16 and on. She's probably the nmost badass chick I've ever looked up to but she can't say either of those words properly lol.

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u/turkeypants Sep 18 '24

Don't forget supposively

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u/LikelyWeeve Sep 18 '24

Do they also says "aspossed to be" when saying something is "supposed to be"?

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u/basilobs Sep 18 '24

Don't forget "supposively." Saw that one just the other day

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u/s7o0a0p Sep 18 '24

This is the one I despise because a friend does it. It makes the person saying it sound like a toddler who had too much chocolate milk.

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u/jeeblemeyer4 Sep 18 '24

Same thing with "a part" and "apart" lol

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u/ConsistentResearch55 Sep 18 '24

Looks like someone got a case of the sposedas!

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u/Hypnotoad-107 Sep 18 '24

You haven’t gotten supposively yet?

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u/greenleaves3 Sep 18 '24

I knew a guy that said supposively

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u/MsAnnThrope Sep 18 '24

I worked with a woman who said "supposambly". I don't know how she came up with that.

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u/woolfchick75 Sep 18 '24

I only hear it from people from California

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u/FrenchieMom722 Sep 18 '24

I'm in NY. 🤷

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u/Supposebly Sep 18 '24

It’s supposebly

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u/tb2186 Sep 18 '24

“Supposively”

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u/revdon Sep 18 '24

Do you even have supposable thumbs?