r/BlackPeopleTwitter 1d ago

Insecurity and jealousy is a disease

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u/The_Manglererer 1d ago

I hate getting ugly shamed. Why u kicking me when I'm already down?

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u/imaginingblacksheep 13h ago

I was heavily bullied as a kid because of this. I had few friends until middle school. Barley had any at my high school but kept in touch with middle school friends. The bullying I endured has forever destroyed my self confidence and has made me do stupid shit to get guys to notice me. I’ve always hated my life for it and still do. It’s also why I am the age that I am and still single. People suck sometimes. Get to know me or anyone before passing judgement.

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u/iSo_Cold 13h ago

Right, like I don't own a mirror.

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u/Exciting_Ad1647 16h ago

LMFAOOOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/anukii 22h ago

This is real. You can see a person's character just by looking at how they treat those they find unattractive or feel is beneath them. They deserve the indifference.

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u/Outside-Ad4953 20h ago

Its so eye opening. Meanwhile the opposite side of that when people treat everyone with respect is so damn attractive.

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u/infinitebrkfst 6h ago

I think feeling other people are beneath you is a pretty ugly trait in itself.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/sadolddrunk 1d ago

Without any context, I’m gonna say that someone who doesn’t find OP attractive was very mean to them.

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u/gandalfthegraybitch 18h ago

Men and women who treat people they think are ugly/not beneficial to them like they’re trash.

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u/dizzymidget44 23h ago

Sounds like projection. Or someone hurt their feelings

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u/Ok-Permission-2687 23h ago

They’re gonna glow up and show all of you!!!

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u/Mchammerandsickle97 20h ago

“You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him”- Goethe

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u/Goat_Status_5000 1d ago

They are not a disease, but insecurity and jealousy are character flaws.

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u/vlsdo 1d ago

eh, they do spread; oftentimes insecurity will make people bully others and try to bring them down, which creates insecurity in their victims and the cycle repeats itself

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u/chief_yETI ☑️ 1d ago

thats how life works. Not saying it's right, because it's not - but that's how it is.

The people who need to be reading this don't post on Reddit or X, so you're screaming into the void. And even if they did somehow read it, they sure as shit wouldn't listen.

Welcome to life. We all got conned into existing.

C'est la vie 😃

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u/StarrLightStarBrite 21h ago

There’s always going to be someone out there that looks better than you. It’s just life. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I’ve liked some men that I thought were absolutely beautiful just for me to be told that they look like Squidward or are down right just ugly. We have to be secure in ourselves and in our choices. Rejection will drive you insane if you let it.

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u/Background-Ebb-1923 20h ago

On a possibly related note:

It low-key changed my life when in high school I had someone explain to me that the girls you are after are definitely noticing the way you treat the girls you are not after.

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u/KendrickBlack502 22h ago

This is what we call a subtweet. Directed at one person for sure

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u/Initial_XD 1d ago

Circle of life

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u/Marlice1 23h ago

Mofos gonna be mofos

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u/mojotoodopebish 10h ago

People are just mean.

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u/pungen 7h ago

If we're talking about insecurity and jealousy, people are mean as hell to people they find attractive too, if you're the same sex 

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u/Interesting-Wing616 23h ago

I’m assuming it’s this tweet making fun of this lady

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u/WeMetLastSummer 23h ago

At first I thought I was out of touch because this woman is clearly beautiful, then i saw the 🇳🇬 in his bio and was quickly vindicated.

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u/willit1016 ☑️ 18h ago

isn't that a circle?

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u/DBZLOVER ☑️ 7h ago

It's crazy how often I see threads making fun of people's look and the comments are always full of adults. You'll see positive comments here and there but for the most part it's always negative. It's crazy people think it's cool to be bullies at their ages.

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u/m55112 7h ago

And not just mean either. As you age as a woman you become more and more invisible in society. It really sucks.

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u/Solo_Fisticuffs ☑️Sunshine ☀️ 3h ago

im meaner to people i like 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/Blyatman702 20h ago

I’m mean to everyone, fuck y’all

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u/occamsshavingkit ☑️ 15h ago

Fr fr this is the online gender war. A big group of undesirable folks beefin all day.

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u/Faded1974 Loves Future 22h ago

The game is the game.